Comments on: Someone Feels Like Typing (or Theories for Everything) http://useyourhands.com/2007/07/21/someone-feels-like-typing-or-theories-for-everything/ Fri, 29 Apr 2011 17:40:40 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Bob the Chef http://useyourhands.com/2007/07/21/someone-feels-like-typing-or-theories-for-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-1659 Bob the Chef Fri, 22 Feb 2008 18:28:38 +0000 http://useyourhands.com/2007/07/21/someone-feels-like-typing-or-theories-for-everything/#comment-1659 Well, giving someone you love a bit of shit about one of their quirks in a playful way is not necessarily an asshole trait; it can be honest and show that you love their little quirk (or despite it), and can be a way of showing affection. This o course assumes that the quirk just crops up and you notice it, not that you go looking for "quirks" to rail against. However, you probably have something else in mind -- one of those manipulative, dishonest, usually insecure, douchebags who thinks that playing the ass will get him/her bootay, or that it projects "control" (but really, they just look like a huge ass -- and those of us who know can see through that crap right away). While I agree that two stars in a relationship results in more friction, they do exist, and often survive only if both give up their starhoods (which is possible -- it's a state of mind). The only reason one-star relationships often continue to exist is because the other person is submitting to/ignoring the the star, not because they're normal. Well, giving someone you love a bit of shit about one of their quirks in a playful way is not necessarily an asshole trait; it can be honest and show that you love their little quirk (or despite it), and can be a way of showing affection. This o course assumes that the quirk just crops up and you notice it, not that you go looking for “quirks” to rail against.

However, you probably have something else in mind — one of those manipulative, dishonest, usually insecure, douchebags who thinks that playing the ass will get him/her bootay, or that it projects “control” (but really, they just look like a huge ass — and those of us who know can see through that crap right away).

While I agree that two stars in a relationship results in more friction, they do exist, and often survive only if both give up their starhoods (which is possible — it’s a state of mind). The only reason one-star relationships often continue to exist is because the other person is submitting to/ignoring the the star, not because they’re normal.

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